I will kill the spiders. i will share my fries with you when you’ve finished all yours and are still hungry. i won’t ever pop my collar. i will never be rude to your tummy- when i hear it growl and gurgle. i promise to bend down and reply respectfully. i will eat the mushrooms when we order the supreme pizza. i will kiss the papercuts. and the door-slammed finger, and the counter-bumped hip. i’ll try my hardest not to get annoyed when you whisper questions and comments during movies. i will be the big spoon. i will let you win at wrestling, sometimes. other times i will not. i will go faster. harder. i will pull when you want. and tease you when you don’t. i will send you random texts and leave you silly gifts. not always. not on schedule. just whenever i want to. whenever i think you need one. or seven. i will check your tire pressure. and remind you to take your car in. i will hold your hand. i will love you. i will love you. i will love you.
Hello! I'm a fellow ldr-er who has a little etsy shop that sells little knits! I was wondering if it would be at all possible to help promote us! I'm a broke college student (like most tumblr users) who uses most of my income on school and plane tickets. We're having free shipping for cyber monday with the code PASTELCUTIE but afterwards I will offer free shipping for anyone in the ldr community with the code LDRCOMMUNITY<3 Please let me know if you're willing to help! Thank you so much!
I'm 14 years old and I've been talking to a guy who's 15 and we've been dating for 8 months now. We kik and text all the time but he says he doesn't have a Facebook, Instagram, snapchat or anything. Sometimes I'm scared and I think that he isn't who he says he is but I don't know. We tell each other everything and I need to know if he's telling the truth. Any advice?
Eh….I’m sorry sweetheart but if you’ve gone 8 months without seeing his face, that seems really iffy to me. Of course everything could be completely fine. All the same, if I were you, I’d insist that he make an account on something. Have you ever heard his voice? You could do something as simple as calling him for some reassurance. It’s ok to be nervous about this. That isn’t being a bad person, it’s looking out for your safety. Please feel free to talk to me if you need any help.
Hey! I’m hoping you can help me out- my sister is conducting research about couples who have been together for 6 months or more and how distance has affected them. She’s roped me into helping recruit participants and that’s where you come in! I’m wondering if you can publish this link and encourage people in a 6-month or longer relationship to take it! Taking the survey puts you into a draw for a $25 visa giftcard, it only takes about 20 minutes and I’ll be forever indebted to you! :)
If you like, I can send you the results of the study afterward as well!
Of course I’d love to help AND see the results! I hope any followers who see this will help them out.
I'm 14 years old and I've been talking to this guy on kik and he's my age. We have snapchatted & skyped already quite a few times so I know he's real & not some creepy old man. I told my sister about him & she keeps urging me to tell my mom about him. I'm really scared to tell her because I'm so young. I'm afraid she'll flip out & ground me or something. My sister keeps "jokingly" bringing it up in front of my mom saying things like "oh she has a boyfriend"& other things.I don't know what to do!
Well 14 is pretty young…but that’s ok. I think you should tell your mom. It’ll be scary and yes, she might react in a bad way. But try to make her understand. Have her sit with you and skype the guy. It’ll be much easier if you have your mom’s support and hiding it from her will just get harder and harder. Good luck!
Is it weird for me to get mad at my LDR girlfriend for wearing other guys clothes?
No I don’t think so. I have some of my boyfriend’s clothes and wearing them is an extremely personal way for me to feel connected to him. I hate to say this because I’m a feminist and proud of myself for being independent…but it’s also kind of an ownership thing. Like, “this girl is wearing my clothes because she is with me and she is mine.” That sounds so….icky but it’s still true. I think wearing another person’s clothes is intimate. If it wasn’t a necessity like her clothes ripped or she had fruit punch poured all over them and she HAD to borrow some clothes to be comfortable and decent, I would be offended.